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Liliana’s Princess Code

💖 A Princess lives their life the way they’d like to see others live

💖 A Princess strives to be her truest self and inspire others to be more comfortable being theirselves

💖A Princess does not allow hatred to be harbored in her heart and does her best to help herself and her community be safe and cared for

💖 A Princess indulges in beautiful things that make me her happy regardless of what others think

💖 A Princess allows herself time to be dressed and groomed exactly as she would like to be

💖 A Princess gives a present to herself everyday, be it a cup of tea or something grand

💖 A Princess does not allow herself to be limited by the box she thinks others would like to have her in, or the box she may have made for herself.

💖 A Princess is responsible to herself and others in deeds, errands and funds, but not at the expense of her health

💖 A Princess shares her love and her smile with the world but not at the cost of her boundaries or her health

💖 A Princess strives to be the best she can be, beauty not perfection

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I was inspired to write this by the original code done by Princess Skye on the Princess Portal! Sadly it can only be accessed on the way back machine now, here I’ll share the original copied from the Lolita Princess blog, I’ll credit with the link below

The Princess Code

“[A] list of values and ideals we aspire to as Princesses… a collaborative effort between many other girls who have sent in their sentences. It belongs to all of us, and while we may not agree with every item on the list (and that’s okay!), it creates a picture of what being a Princess means.”

• A Princess inspires others to follow their hopes and dreams through pursuing her own.
• A Princess greets everyone with a welcoming smile, melting the hearts of friends and disarming her enemies.
• A Princess has dignity, which protects her from the opinions and spite of ignorant people.
• A Princess always looks beautiful, even when she is asleep.
• A Princess aims for perfection in every step.
• A Princess should be given fresh flowers everyday, even if she has to give them to herself.
• A Princess grows in recognition and stature in proportion to how much she treats others as royalty.
• A Princess reflect’s her inner beauty in her aesthetic choices.
• A Princess goes to war against the violence of incivility with the weapons of etiquette and prodigal generosity.
• A Princess lives each day from the heart, expressing herself freely and treasuring every moment.
• A Princess has the right to spend her funds on beautiful things she does not need because beauty in itself is priceless.
• A Princess should follow her heart and believe in her dreams, even if the whole world seems to be against her.
• A Princess respects her environment and nurtures the beauty of nature.
• A Princess is never too busy to give a kind word or smile where it is needed.
• A Princess’s most precious jewel is Hope, which lights her darkest days and shows her the beauty in every soul she meets.”

https://thelolitaprincess.wordpress.com/the-princess-code/

I really like the original code quite a bit and took a lot of inspiration from it! I updated it and tried not to take anything word for word, in some ways I find the original too specific and too unattainable but I love how charming it is! Also in the blog post that I referenced it said that Princess Skye emphasized that every princess should have their own code, I encourage any lifestyle Lolita or jfashion that relates to being a princess write one of their own! It was really fun and let me reflect once again on what being a lifestyle Lolita means to me for more than just the clothes