Read an Essay by Novala Takemoto | 365 Lifestyle Lolita Challenge

I finally joined egl on livejournal so I could read an essay I was dying to read! I really Princess Love Being Mean, I thought it would be an interesting place to go because with my own journey with being a lifestyle Lolita I haven’t really factored being “mean” or “rebellious” into it, I often have the aspirational image of trying to be like a heroic magical girl or a virtuous disney princess. However in this brief essay that doesn’t seem to be what Takemoto-san is talking about, it seems to be more about making sure to put yourself first in situations in a lot of it. That I can agree can be off putting to others but is important to do. What threw me off of that a little though was when he said he was a big fan of models or actresses when he found out they were a nightmare to work with. I think that explains a little about Momoko as a protagonist.

Best Lolita Themed Places in VT | 365 Lifestyle Lolita Challenge

Here I’ll have a mix of places you are most likely to find lolitas in Vermont and places that have a cute theme but we have yet to go!

1.) Church Street, Burlington.

You are the most likely to run into someone wearing Lolita fashion on Church Street! Many meetups happen there and it’s where many college kids hang out. I found a now member of my current comm in a Starbucks randomly one day.

2.) My Little Cupcake

This has been a popular place for meetups through the years and perfectly on theme!! It’s also in Burlington

3.) Hana, Japanese Restaurant

This is a wonderful restaurant that I’ve been to many times! The staff is always wonderfully accommodating of our meets. It’s been a little while

4.) Kitty Korner Cafe, Barre, VT

This has been a favorite of mine recently! Due to the pandemic we haven’t been able to have a full meet there but I adore going and can’t wait to plan one once it’s safe again to do so. I feel as if cat cafe’s are a classic

5.) Shelburne Museum

This is a popular meetup place as well! Sadly I haven’t been able to go to any because I swear there is a curse on this meet in our comm

6.) The Vermont Teddy Bear Factory!

This was an extraordinary meet and even though we only went once it was so fun and so one theme for everyone it was one of the best and most fun meets we’ve done.

7.) Each Other’s Houses!

I feel I really took for granted the luxury of so many members of my comm often hosting out of their homes, it was always a super fun and affordable way to have a meet up, and it’s probably the meets that I miss the most right now.

Learn a New Easy Hairstyle | 365 Lifestyle Lolita Challenge

So I decided to try one of the hairstyles in the video below!! It seemed a good cross of some of my interests!

Please excuse the giant pile of Xmas presents at my parents house behind me

I decided to try to do the heart buns!! They’re a bit messy since my hair is shorter but I think it’s cute!

Clothing Care Advice from Someone who struggles to care for their closet

I have ADHD something I’m pretty open about on my social media but this is something that makes caring for my Lolita clothes pretty difficult from time to time and I wanted to share practical advice for making your life easier when you are taking care of your Lolita fashion clothes

1.) Have two laundry baskets, one for clothes that can go through the washer no problem and one for handwash only clothing that way you don’t accidentally ruin petticoats or brand

2.) Don’t be afraid of the washer for more sturdy pieces, but when in doubt line dry.

3.) On that note, have a place where you can easily hang things to dry, I’m blessed to have a porch with a clothesline but if you don’t have that invest in a drying rack that you can set next to a sunny window

4.) Get a clothing steamer, mini iron and ironing board and be sure to store it near your wardrobe so you will actually use it

5.) Pick one day of the week to accomplish hand washing tasks and stick to it that way your brand doesn’t sit in a ball for weeks on end

6.) Don’t be afraid to go professional with more tricky pieces