Self care is really important! We’ve all been through some pretty rough stuff lately and it could be good to take a moment to take good care of ourselves and do what we can to keep our spirits up. I always advocate for practical self care such as getting enough sleep, eating well and keeping up with doctor’s appointments but it is always super fun to treat yourself! Here’s a sweet lolita themed list of ways you could treat yourself!
❤ Get a kawaii bathbomb! I recently purchased a fairy themed one with a toy inside that I can’t wait to
❤ Bake a favorite sweet treat! Like cookies or cupcakes! You could find a really fancy one on pinterest to give a go
❤ Watch a cute show! My go to lately has been Tropical Rouge Pretty Cure! It is so adorable and I have been enjoying it so much
❤ Take some time to just take a break, set a timer and take a nap in a nest made of your favorite cute blankets and stuffed animals
❤ Make yourself a cup of floral tea and curl up and read a good book
❤ Clean up a space and make it super cute, light some floral or sweet themed candles.
I decided I wanted to have little calling cards for once I’m able to go to events again! It was super fun to make and I hope I get to use these next time I go to a big event! I ordered some of these off of snapfish
1.) Accept that you won’t actually be able to wear it literally everyday and that that’s okay and makes you no less of a lifestyle lolita, there’s a lot more to it than just the clothes for a lot of lifestylers!
2.) Get in the habit of planning coordinates the day before! I have Stylebook on my phone so I will often plan out the outfit on there instead of rifling through my closet. Then I put it all into a cute little box on my bureau for the next day so I’m not scrambling looking for a headpiece 20 minutes before I need to be out of the house for work
3.) Get really familiar with your office’s dress code if you work in an environment where you don’t have to wear a uniform. That way you can be sure that even if your outfit may offend a coworkers tastes you know that you are in the clear and you don’t have to stress about whether or not your coords are work appropriate.
4.) Develop a makeup routine that will work with most of your coords, I personally love experimental makeup with egl but in the morning you aren’t always going to have time for that. I like doing a simple soft girly makeup the majority of the time, I have toned down dolly eye makeup down pat. Japanese magazine scans that you can find on pinterest are great for daily inspiration
5.) Make a laundry system and do your best to stick to it! I actually got a smaller basket so it would be the size of what I could feasibly handwash and not feel overwhelmed and it is also coincidentally the same size as a single load in my apartment buildings washer and dryer. I have only recently gotten this down and I have had many pieces that could have been saved and had their life prolonged if I had only figured this one out sooner
6.) Keep your closet organized! Find a way that works for you to quickly locate the items you need particularly accessories, they can accrue much faster than you think and can add 20 minutes to your time getting ready if you can’t find them
7.) Make a budget. Lolita’s joke a lot about their spending habits and although it is fun to joke about it’s important to make sure that you’re able to enjoy your lifestyle and hobby worry free. Being super stressed about money isn’t kawaii. ( I am honestly still working on this one so it is coming from a place of personal experience and love to you all.)
8.) In the same vein as the makeup get some go to hairstyles down pat as well that are under 10 minutes, anything heat free with a little bit of practice can often end up falling in this category. I personally love twin tails at all heights and a half up hairstyle with a bun or braids on the side. I also like braids plopped on the top of my head into an updo.
9.) Let yourself romanticize your life, this subculture in a lot of ways is based on escapism but don’t drift so far you leave reality, let that princess mindset allow you to see the bright side of life and give you extra motivation where their might not normally be any. Don’t feel like going to work? Remind yourself that you need more gold and silver to fund your kingdom. It sounds silly but it helps a lot for me and I’m hoping it might help some of you too.
10.) Don’t isolate yourself entirely in this world, allow yourself to have other interests! Be a broad and dynamic person. I personally do things like karate and going to the gym and although those aren’t always associated with the lolita style I am made happy by those things. Let lolita fashion add to your life not take away from it
I made a moodboard like I suggested in my lifestyle lolita tips blog post! I decided to go with images that made me think of romantic adventures and fun times with my friends! I’m very lucky to live in an area that it’s possible to start seeing people again and going out to do things. I want to live my summer to the fullest this year! I also have a lot of new interests this year I didn’t have last year like swimming and mermaiding! Water is going to be a big part of my summer this year as well as egl meetups. I am so excited.
☀️Get a kawaii swimsuit, and enjoy a trip with a friend
☀️Get outside! Go for a hike, swim or bike ride
☀️Watch the sunset one night
☀️Enjoy some ice cream! Try making one of those over the top harajuku ice cream shop style sundaes
☀️Try mixing in chiffon blouses and lighter fabrics into your coords to deal with the warm weather
☀️Create road trip mixtapes for when you’re able to road trip again
☀️Update your travel bags for when you can vacation again add bows and lace!
☀️Try a blouse less coord on a really hot day and take advice on how to coordinate that from much more experienced lolitas from warmer climates, I plan on trying one myself this month!
☀️Make a moodboard for how you want your summer to be and make it a
I got to go camping with my fiancé last weekend! It was so much fed! I actually got to feed him out of my hand later on! I didn’t get a picture of that though, it felt like pure magic! I also got to go swimming in the lake, it was freezing but I didn’t care! It was too cold unfortunately for my cutie but he sat on the dock with me
When we were sitting on the dock some fish swam up to us! I’ve never had that happen before and it was so cool! One tried to see if I was food, it tickled a lot! I also showed my fiancé all of the cool structures the seasonals built! Since we were using my parents campsite, we had so much fun!
I bought Project Diva on the switch today! I played it for about two hours and I loved it! I’ve never really played a lot of rhythm games before and it is incredibly difficult if you’ve never done that before, I have to play it on easy to complete most of the songs.
I love how customizable the game is! I can decide whether the singing stops if I miss a beat, the volume of the sound effects, and the outfits the vocaloids are wearing! In the demo it seemed you could change the vocaloids themselves but I can’t figure out how to do it in the main game which is really my only complaint at the moment, I also love that you earn the in game currency! There are some DLC but it appears to be mostly song packs. If you like vocaloid music I’d highly reccommend this game! It’s also just really cute and aesthetic, the art is beautiful
I tried egirl makeup for the first time today!! I’ve never tried it before and shockingly loved how it combined with my Lolita aesthetic! I feel like a Tsundere girl in a harem anime, I think makeup is often a very overlooked aspect of fashion in regards to egl but I think it can change the whole look
When I was first getting into Lolita fashion it was the height of OTT sweet so the most popular makeup I could find at the time was Dolly makeup! It’s still one of my go to’s to this day. I also was fond of doing more natural looks as well
It wasn’t until I recently got into Gyaru that I had considered more intense makeup looks with JFashion. It definitely made a huge difference in the way whole outfits looked and I really enjoyed the combo of cute and flirtatious that a lot of himekaji gyaru had!
Recently I’ve been really admiring the egirl aesthetic but whenever I tried the clothes I never felt like I could pull it off, so I tried out just the makeup today with clothes I already am confident in and it was an incredible feeling! I felt cute and unique and awesome! I highly recommend experimenting with new makeup styles if you want to switch up your look
Another great thing about this is it didn’t require me buying a single thing I could just use what I already had.
Luna By The Lake With Cake 