Trying to defeat my Style Pile

If you have ever watched Annika Victoria you will be aware of the term the style pile, a pile of clothes that need repairs or to be resized. A few months ago I dedicated myself to putting all clothing in need of repair or tailoring into storage to fix it, but now this pile has been haunting me. It sits and stares at me and I struggle to get to motivation to go through it!

It’s not that I don’t like the clothes in this pile, in fact if I didn’t I would have donated them away when I first cleaned out my closet. However these projects just loom at me. I think one thing that’s been keeping me from motivation, is that I know that I already struggle to keep up with laundry so adding this in would add to the laundry I already can’t keep up with, as well as many of the projects in this pile being multi step projects.

The one I have been slowly but surely making progress on is working on replacing the shirring panel in a skirt to elasticate it since the zipper broke and I hate zippers but it has been so much trial and error to go through. I’m determined to finish the project in order have my skirt back.

I also think altering some of these clothes is hard because it’s accepting that time has passed and I have changed. I have changed for the better but it’s still hard. I’m not the same person I was when I bought that skirt when I was 16, I’m 23 and I have a whole new wonderful life now. It’s weirdly nostalgic and bittersweet to think about. As I write this it’s giving me motivation to work more on this ongoing project I think it’ll be a good representation of how my journey with lolita fashion has changed

5 Ways to Keep your Lolita Clothes in Good Condition

Lolita Fashion wardrobes are often made out of expensive investment pieces meant to last a long time! Here are some ways to keep those pieces lasting longer

1.) As soon as you receive your pieces reinforce any of the buttons, taobao pieces often have somewhat flimsy sewn on buttons. There is special thread specifically made for buttons you can get at seeing shops

2.) If you’re someone like me who sweats and needs to wear deodorant you may be familiar with yellow stains, getting cheap undershirts can help your especially light colored garments from staining

3.) Treat any stains you see upon purchasing or having an accident happen immediately, the sooner you act on it the higher chance you have of getting it out

4.) Keep up with regular repairs if your see a hole forming in a piece of clothing take the time to repair it as soon as you see if before it develops into something bigger

5.) Once every season take the time to go through your clothes and see what you want to keep, it’s much easier to take care of a wardrobe you love

My Favorite Spooky but Elegant Anime

1.) Another

List of Another episodes - Wikipedia

An absolutely beautiful anime, the art style is gorgeous and if you’re a fan of final destination it could be a great fit for you to watch! Lots of horror references and a very endearing main character. In the OVA she even wears lolita fashion.

2.) Vampire Knight

Vampire Knight (TV Series 2008– ) - IMDb

One of the very first anime I fell in love with an my personal introduction to shoujo anime! It has beautiful European aesthetics and is full of melodrama. It may be a bit much for some but it has a very special place in my heart. I do recommend checking out doesthedogdie for trigger warnings before this one. It’s not very graphic but due to the vampirism has some questionable family dynamics.

3.) Shiki

Shiki (TV Series 2010–2011) - IMDb

This anime has the honor of being the first time that vampires actually scared me! It is an amazing blend of both japanese and european folklore around vampires and it’s a very enjoyable watch.

4.) Elfen Lied

Elfen Lied (TV Mini Series 2004) - IMDb

One of the first horror anime I watched, I really enjoyed it and I watched it with my mom in high school. It even had the honor of being the cover of my sketchbook for an art class in high school as well. It does contain lots of blood and nudity.

5.) Serial Experiments Lain

Serial Experiments Lain (TV Mini Series 1998) - IMDb

This one is much more existential than the previous ones but I think it fits a melancholic gothic tone well. If you feel like having beautiful horror to see this spooky season anything on this list could potentially be a hit.

Tips for Brushing Out Long Wigs

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Halloween is coming up so it seems time to write this article that covers all the niches on my blog. Wigs! Lolitas, Gyarus, Mermaids, and Cosplayers alike have a tendency to use wigs however caring for them or restyling them for an upcoming halloween coord or costume can be a pain in the neck. As someone who has had to throw out a Miku wig before due to tangles let me share what I have learned!

1.) If your wig has product in it take the time to wash it out in order to detangle the wig, you can use wig specific shampoo to lengthen the life of your wig

2.) Allow the wig to completely dry before brushing it or the fibers will break making it harder to treat next time

3.) Use a wig detangler whether it’s commercial or homemade it helps a ton

4.) Go from biggest to smallest in detangling, for example use your fingers then a wide tooth comb, then a brush with flex bristles then a regular brush and if you’re someone who wants a super deep detangle you can finish with a fine tooth comb

5.) Always go from the bottom to the top so you aren’t ripping the ends

6.) Put the wig into loose braids for storage to keep it from tangling again

My Favorite Creepy Cute Halloween Movies!

1.) Hocus Pocus

Super nostalgic for me I remember watching it every year and I grew up with a black cat named Binky

2.) The Nightmare Before Christmas

This was always a fun movie to watch cause I have always been a fan of both Christmas and Halloween and it covers both!

3.) The Corpse Bride

This movie is so beautiful and has a really interesting storyline so I always enjoy watching it

4.) Coraline

I adore Coraline I was sort of an only child for 11 years when I was little so I relate to her quite a bit and I find it a very fun story

5.) Any of the Addams family movies

I really love the addams family and find their family to be an inspiration for what I want in my life.

10 Halloween Lolita Meetup Ideas

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1.) Have a Horror Movie Marathon!

2.) Have a parlor game party with games like Mafia and Werewolf

3.) Have a Monster Party where each member of your comm is assigned a Monster they have to base a coord off of.

4.) Do a Trick or Treat Party where each person brings a different thing of candy

5.) If everyone is over 21, hit up a local halloween party at a bar together

6.) Have a Halloween craft party and make spooky accessories for your gothic coords

7.) Have a costume competition using a lolita coord as a base.

8.) Have a creepy cute movie marathon with each other! Halloweentown comes to mind, along with Hocus Pocus.

9.) Have a baking party where everyone makes spooky treats together!

10.) Have a spooky makeover party where everybody learns how to do spooky gothic makeup, bat liner is a personal favorite of mine.

Finally Figuring Out How to Apply Fake Nails

I have really loved getting into Gyaru but I have sucked at nails and lashes which are huge parts of the style so I just wanted to show off my first successful nail set that didn’t immediately pop off! Also here’s the tutorial I followed!

I got these at the dollar store and the design started fading after 3 days but it was totally worth it for a practice round! So if you’re struggling with a new thing you want to try don’t give up!

://youtu.be/kXo2ympE9lg

My Top 5 Halloween Candies

I thought it’d be fun to write a quick lighthearted halloween candy ranking list! Since I like a lot of unusual candies people loved trading with me.

1.) Whoppers

My favorite halloween candy by far were this malt balls! Everyone always seemed to hate them in my neighborhood so trading for them was a cinch. I always ended up with a huge bag full.

2.) Reese’s Cups

These were pretty popular so trading was a lot harder for these than the previous ones but they are a delicious classic. I always liked the pumpkin ones

3.) Junior Mint’s

These were pretty rare to get but I adored the mini boxes that would be there

4.) Twix bars!

I loved twix bars and in my neighborhood where I grew up these were the most likely to have full size versions

5.) Dark Chocolate Milky Ways!

I loved these! Caramel is a big favorite of mine

I really adored trick or treating younger and I had a great time! My favorite costume I ever did was Alice in Wonderland with a group of friends my freshman year of high school which was the last year I ever trick or treated. Thanks for reading!

October Lifestyle Lolita Tips!

🎃 Go looking for the perfect sweater to pair with coords through the cold months, eliminating the choice between being cold or fashionable

🎃 Find cute halloween themed accessories at the store! If your fashion is on the sweet or spooky cute side I have found some surprisingly wonderful accessories at the dollar store and pharmacy this time of year.

🎃 Give orange a chance! It’s the most underrated color in egl in my opinion and instantly gives a spooky but festive vibe to any coord

🎃 Carve pumpkins to get into the Halloween spirit! Maybe carve a cute cat or an elegant design!

🎃 Try making your own pumpkin spice mix and use it to bake or make your lattes at home!

🎃 Wear as many gothic or gothic inspired coords as you can this month!

🎃 Watch Creepy Cute Movies like Coraline or anything done by Tim Burton, the Nightmare Before Christmas is my personal favorite