Gaps in My Wardrobe I Need to Fill

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I have been in Lolita for a few years now, but I am still learning a lot and my wardrobe has grown rather slowly from the restrictions of being a student both in high school and college. I also have a tendency to impulse buy random things that catch my eye. I’m attracted to the idea of minimalism but I love the aesthetics of elegance and opulence and I am often torn. I watched a really helpful video by the Stitchess about making a wardrobe table and it has been monumentally helpful in guiding some of my purchases. I did impulse buy a couple things recently but I am quite proud to say that it all fits in my table!

MintPurpleSaxPinkBlackWhiteRedBeigeNavy
OPQi Fanplusfriend/Haenuli Phantom2 FanplusfriendCheval de Bois
JSKSecret HospitalBodyline Cat Piano/Swan dressBodyline
BlouseStrawberry Witch(Just Bought)BodylineBodyline
SocksBtSSB
ShoesOffbrand + Angelic Pretty WedgesWitch HeelsCovergirl Heels
TightsPlain Offbrand
BowsAngelic Pretty
SkirtAP GelatoLove Nadia (Just Bought)F+F UnderskirtF+F Doctor Who
It’s not fancy but it’s helped!

As you can see, I really need some socks. So I now know that looking at this chart that if I want to be able to coord more with my current pieces, I should focus on some socks and shoes and that I’m doing well on filling in my blouses! I’m trying the keep it 1-2 items per category.

I find that this system gives some focus to what was feeling like an increasingly cluttered wardrobe as I love all 3 of the main substyles of lolita fashion. In the future I also want to make a separate accessories table but I need to organize and since all jewelry could technically go with lolita fashion it’s going to be a longer process. Ialso don’t know if it makes more sense to organize by theme or color

On my immediate wardrobe workhorse wishlist in order of priority

  • Socks!!!! I need so many more socks
  • Shoes
  • More petticoats
  • Accessories that match more coord themes
  • Things that I can work into more work wardrobe

By using this in the future I hope that I can maximize the usefulness of my wardrobe in the future and keep improving my coords! I’m also trying to use up my scrap pile to make some items to fill out this table. I want to practice my sewing skills and minimize spending and trips out. I look forward to sharing those

I have really enjoyed using this system to organize my purchases and my wardrobe and I highly recommend it!

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Lolita Room Makeover

In being sent home from college suddenly, I found myself thrust into my childhood bedroom and pretty much everything about it felt wrong. So I took it upon myself to do something I have wanted to do for a long time. I completely “lolified” my room, although I love wearing sweet and gothic classic aesthetics have been starting to really appeal to me! So I took it and ran with it and gave my room a classic x sweet makeover. I didn’t think to take some before pictures unfortunately but I’m delighted to show what it looks like now!

I used a lot of wrapping paper and double sided tape for the walls as I was asked not to paint them! It’s not perfect but the results make me really happy. Have any of you decorated your rooms with the lolita aesthetic in mind? How’d you do it?

How Lolita Fashion Makes Me a Better Big Sister

I have 5 younger siblings, I come from a split family so one of them is 19 and we share a mother, but the other 4 are all under 11 years old. I feel as if Lolita Fashion makes me more able to connect with them and I think that’s special. I wonder if anyone else in the community has much younger siblings and feel better able to connect. I still love to sing and read fairytales so whenever someone wants their sister to read them the entirety of Hans Christian Anderson’s Snow Queen over the course of a few nights I’m the one there. Today we had a Princess Day as I have been loosely trying the lolita lifestyle challenge.

Cute sandwich I made for Princess Day. My sisters had Dolphins with a heart

It was so much fun! We played cards, sang songs and dressed up. My 5 year old little sister has been excited about this day since it had been planned about a month ago. Last night she excitedly exclaimed to my parents that today would be Princess Day and picked out a poofy pink dress to match mine. I am so grateful in these moments and especially in this current situation to have something that brings so much light into my life that I can also share with my siblings. My 10 year old sister was curious about the fashions itself and I got to show her what Decora and Fairy Kei are. She absolutely loved looking at both and it brought me joy that I could share something with her. Comfier clothes are more her scene and she thought Decora looked especially neat.

This aesthetic encourages me to bring a lot more adventure into my life and since I still live at home for the time being it means I get to bring more adventure into their lives as well. I appreciate having siblings that are so much younger than me. It gives me excuses to play faeries and superheroes and this brings me so much joy. We live in a rather rural area which means we can go outside and have no contact with other people which I am also extremely grateful for. We had a tea party by the brook a mile away from my house with orange cookies I made. It was absolutely delightful

In what ways has being in the Lolita Fashion community unexpectedly made your life better?